Someone Asked Me, How Do I Raise Good Children? How Do Teach Them Respect & To Obey? How Do You Raise Them The Right Way?
No Parent is Perfect. Answer: 1. The Bible says to raise a child in the way that they should go; Raise them in the word and to fear God, to know God. 2. I don’t care how hard you try to be a good Parent to your child…. you wouldn’t see what you did wrong until their Grown. Then, it’s too late to remold them.
IT’S SO HARD TO COMMUNICATE; ONE WORD CAN HAVE SO-MANY-DIFFERENT MEANINGS.
I love you means I like you alot. I miss you means I miss something you do. I need you means I need sex. Your the one means your the one right now. I trust you means I trust as far as I can see. Don’t go means stay until I don’t need you. You hurt my feelings means nothing.
Being a writer, words mean the world to me. Every word has its own meaning, its own time and place. Words determine the outcome of a thing, the depth of thing. I’ve search my whole life to find someone that could hear me. You, you listen to my heart, my soul, my spirit. When my words won’t come out right, you speak what I meant to say. I speak words on the surface of things, you speak the depth of my hidden fears. When you speak, it’s like you’ve been in my secret places and heard my silence cries. You leave me frozen in my steps when you speak my truth that I keep from you. Before you, I always felt like I was in the world by myself. When you speak, you are in my world, crossing into my comfort zone.
My land was divided by your ocean, you open me up and filled every part of me. Before you, Words was all I had and I kept them hidden inside. Before you, a pen, a piece of paper and prayers was all I had to express myself. Writing was my safe place, no one could use my words against me. Writing was somewhere to put how I felt and now I have you, my words, you hear and we are one I love you, my world, my every thing. Maybe you are just my imagination because you left without a single word.
Wisdom is a gift beyond the mind of men; deeper than space; time between time; sweeter than the gift of life and powerful enough to change the course of the atmosphere. Wisdom and sorrow go hand in hand; there is not one without the other.
From My Heart: The Bible teaches the knowledge of Wisdom but it is God who gives wisdom. Wisdom is a part of His spoken word to every heart. There is no God wiser than the most High God.
A man cannot be wise man without the love and word of God. Wisdom comes from God. Wisdom is filled with love, patience and much mercy. Gifts without wisdom and the love of God, will bring you much confusion and unrighteous sorrow.
Promises are words of good intent; A delay of your efforts: a word used to dig your own hole of regret.
From My Heart: Promises are made from the heart with good intentions to carry it out. Things happen. Things change. People are human and we all fall short. Promises because of Obligations or a feeling that it’s your Responsibilities are serious commitments. Your word and your promises will determine your worth. Keep your word, say what you mean, mean what you say and do what you say you will do; this portray character and integrity. A person is only as good as their word.
My mind is unique and it’s my own. Just because you question my ability to think, Just because I don’t think as they or you. Doesn’t mean that my mind is any less perfect. My mind is a gift from God. It’s not a present that you can un-wrap or re-program.Yes, your word alter my thinking, causing me to doubt myself. Yes, your words may hurt and make me cry. Yes, your words may cause me to lose more than I gain. Yes, your words my may make me question my existence.
But at the end of the day, my mind is mine and God’s. I renew my thoughts and cast down your cruel intent before they reach my soul. So, continue your efforts to drive me up the wall I’ll be hanging from the ceiling with you hanging right next to me
Counseling: Someone that listens in order to give advice and direction to another; One that thinks highly of self and plant seeds/words in the lives of others for time and money and they nature that seed to healthy state of mind; Someone educated enough to evaluate the state of mind and has mastered the ways that the mind thinks and with a single word, they can determine a diagnosis and need for medications, weakness or disabilities; Someone that can manipulate a mind or transform thinking.
From My Heart: Counseling without Wisdom, Knowledge, Experience, Fairness, Compassionate, Patience, Understanding, Mercy and God is being counseled by fools
The Cure To Loving again and again: Forgive the person that hurt you. Forgive yourself for allowing them to hurt you. Apply the word of God to your wound; hold his comforting words to your heart. Harden not your heart but learn from your mistakes, learn how to protect your heart more, learn to be patient in love and wait for love to prove itself to be true, learn to accept that it may or may not work out. Believe that love gives your heart life. In life you take the good with the bad and weigh it out as much as possible. People aren’t perfect, they love with the only love they have and it will never compare to yours and it will never be the same love. If you heal with God’s help, part of your heart will be harden and foolish.
I found out that God is a jealous God wanted me to know that there is no other more powerful and loving than He. He wanted me to love Him and trust almost as much as the love He has for me. He wants a chance to show me His love, a chance to show me that He would never leave me nor forsake me; that the doors He closed no one could open and doors He opened, no one could close. He let me know that He was God all by Himself and He didn’t need my help. God loved me enough to show me His heart. I learn to cast down every thought that exhaust itself against the word of God and His promises for my life. I laid every doubt at His feet and left it there. And I took a lot of deep breaths, blowing my caring upon waters that I could not see. I forgave myself. I finally chose to trust God with His plan for my life and heart. I tried hard not to lean on my own understanding and get out of the way of what God is doing. I started applying his word to my emotions, fears and worry because he said if I abide in Him and His word abided in me, anything I ask, this He would do if it was His will. On my rough days, I prayed in moaning because I had no words, God knew my heart and heard my cry and I waited for a change to come. After 40 years, God let me out the wilderness and answered my prayers. He said “Yes” to me. But He allows me to visit the wilderness to save soul for His Glory and touch heart with His love.