Wisdom Notes-31

Someone Asked Me, How Do I Raise Good Children? How Do Teach Them Respect & To Obey? How Do You Raise Them The Right Way?

No Parent is Perfect. Answer: 1. The Bible says to raise a child in the way that they should go; Raise them in the word and to fear God, to know God.  2. I don’t care how hard you try to be a good Parent to your child…. you wouldn’t see what you did wrong until their Grown. Then, it’s too late to remold them.

Wisdom Notes-28

IT’S SO HARD TO COMMUNICATE; ONE WORD CAN HAVE SO-MANY-DIFFERENT MEANINGS.

I love you means I like you alot. I miss you means I miss something you do. I need you means I need sex. Your the one means your the one right now. I trust you means I trust as far as I can see. Don’t go means stay until I don’t need you. You hurt my feelings means nothing.

Wisdom Notes-18

How Do You Separate Life From Work… Separate Pain From Joy….Separate Your Past From Your Future… Separate Your Friends From Your Enemies… Separate Right From Wrong…

Breathe, Pray, Get Wisdom, Forgive, Make wise choices, Do the Right thing for the right reasons & Trust God for the rest.

Wisdom Notes-17

It’s Hard To See Things A Better Way. It’s Hard To Always Do Things The Right Way. It’s Hard To Believe When Your Body Is In Pain. It’s Hard To Trust Something You Can’t See. It’s Hard To Change With A Broken Spirit. It’s Hard To Walk Through Fear. It’s Hard To Love When Your Heart Has Been Torn Apart…

Be patient with yourself. Be patient with God. Nothing last forever but God’s love for you. There is Wisdom in everything that happens. A hard heart can’t learn wisdom.

Vessel

A hollow tube; something weak yet strong enough to carry a precious thing; something used by God to get blessing from point A to point B.

From My Heart: A broken piece of grass, bent over from the heaviness of life… yet, as useless as it feels, it still provides shade for a ant, protecting it from the sun; a hollow tube (humble spirit) that is the wanting and waiting to be filled with God’s purpose, waiting to carry out God’s will. Most vessels are clogged with selfness, sin, foolishness, un-forgiveness, regret, everyday life problems and stuff.

In order to be ready for God to use us, we have to clean out our vessels (lives); renew our minds (cast down thoughts), change our ways; be humble to the little voice of your personal Holy Spirit; submitting the hearts to the word of God; try to do what is right before God; surrender unto him and be willing to be used by God and praying about all things; pray for guidance and direction.

Taking Advantage

Taking advantage of the weak in helpless moments, naive and innocent people is a very cruel thing.

From My Heart: The choice not to take advantage of someone; not to take advantage of a situation or issue; not taking advantage of the lesser being… shows that you have a heart, a soul, character, integrity, morals and values of a higher standard.

Advice: When someone takes advantage of a person seems to strengthen their weaknesses; much like pride covers FEAR. Stop being weak food for the strong. Know your self-worth. Hold your ground. Know that you have a right to say “No”. Know that you deserve better. Walk away. Do what’s best for you. Know that, if someone loves you, they won’t take advantage of you or your weaknesses. Don’t trust a fool to do right by you.

Non-Talkers/Backward World

NON-TALKERS (DON’T TALK MUCH) Non-Talkers are often quite; in much thought; not quick to put feelings into words; very observant.

From My Heart Not everyone knows how to put their feelings into words. Not everyone knows how to respond to certain topics. Not everyone likes to be put on the spot to say the right thing. People don’t talk for reasons of their own. Respect their silence with patience. Maybe they respect the power of words and use them sparingly. In any case, try to be understanding and be respectful. Learn to read their actions and study their ways. Learn to search their eyes for the words they don’t say. Learn to listen more and talk less and wait for their responds. Tell them what you want to talk to them about and give them a time to process it and come back later to discuss it. Last but not least, be merciful and give them a safe place to put how they feel. Think before you speak. Let them know that how they feel is important and you care about what they have to say.

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Poetry

Backwards World: The loudest person in the room is always heard and people are quick to listen but a quite, humble and meek person is never heard or seen. The meanest people are respected and we are quick to catered to their every need, but a patient and sweet person is neglected and catered to last.

A shallow person is accepted and given more of an opportunity than a sincere person, because their words are perfect and their appearance fit the room. Kindness and humbleness is interpreted as weakness or being timid which speaks inadequacy. Silence is viewed as anti-social, unusual, un-intelligent, which portray an inability to conquer and succeed. Sometimes, silence speaks much truth. Anti-Social-it takes strength to stand alone and be different.

Intelligence is an individual thing: Watch a doctor fixes a car; Watch a genius tries to conquer a simple thing. Watch a highly educated person play a child’s game and foolish. The strong person is considered the perfect leader but strength without wisdom is ignorance. Conniving people are trusted more than trusted people that you can depend on. Lazy people get paid more and the hardest working people get paid less or less than less People (friends, ect…) with no experience are hired to delegate people with years of experience We take care of everyone but our own.

We give more to the rich than to the poor. We have allowed our enemies access as if they are our friends. We cast our votes based on skin color, drama, hatred, insecurities, fear and greed… not with fairness, integrity, wisdom, knowledge or for the welfare or concern for others. Together we could conquer all but we are too divided, foolish and selfish. A land of beauty, blessed in all things, land of plenty yet, we are our own enemy. We are some backwards, screwed up people with messed up priorities. I know, go back where I came from… my mother’s womb, not Africa.

Before the Goodbyes

Poetry

We are at the end of this thing called love. I got a feeling that only one of us is trying to find the right things to make a difference and avoid an end. The other is only trying to figure out how to get out of this thing the easy way and in one piece. The ship is going down and it’s time to drown or get off. No more reasons and sorry excuses. Yet our hearts are humbleness as if there’s a chance to salvage this thing we called love. Begging is the only thing left to do but our lips won’t open; our arms won’t reach for each other and neither one of us has the strength to try anymore.

This is our last moment. Silence and tears are all that is left between us I guess, when it’s over, it’s over Goodbye My Love

Impatient

An impatient person need things to happen fast; Never enough time; Short sighted-never considering the outcome or other; a rush to be pleased or be satisfied as if the chance will never come again; anxiety feelings teasing the mind with what if’s, so they have to re-act right now, have it right now, do it right now, know it right now, see it right now, hear it right now, feel it right now. Your needs and wants are the only thing that matters in that moment…there is no peace in being impatient.

From My Heart: Impatient people have to realize that, some things take time and if you lose it, it was never yours. You can’t make some things happen as fast as you would like. Maybe you rush things because you need it to happen in order to believe that it’s real. You can’t rush things, especially when it involves other people lives. You have to learn to respect the slowness of others, the time frame of others and the mind of others. Being impatient is rude and selfish on your part. Everything is not just about you.

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Poetry

With Me, when you’re impatient with me I can’t find the right things to say I can’t think clearly to prove my point. When you’re impatient with me It hurts my heart and makes me sad It makes me feel like I let you down. When you’re impatient with me I try harder but I only end up making more mistakes

I’m confused and frustrated with you and myself when you’re impatient with me. It means you don’t believe in me and not believing in me, makes it impossible for me to believe in myself. When you’re impatient with me I don’t feel your love. My self-worth is worthless when you’re impatient with me.

When you’re impatient with me, you’re being impatient with us

Hurt

Because you have been hurt: the world does not evolve around you, the sun and moon does not rise on your behind; it’s not about what’s best for you or what comfortable for your damage heart.

From My Heart: Being hurt doesn’t give you the right to hurt others; it doesn’t give you the right to make other pay for what they didn’t do; it doesn’t give you the right to be unfair or selfish in love; it doesn’t give you the right to be mean, distant, impatient, disrespectful, inconsiderate, un-merciful or cold hearted; it doesn’t give you the right to judge others so harshly, quickly and assume the worst; it; hurt doesn’t give you reason to walk away anytime you want you; it doesn’t give you the right to give up so easily and it doesn’t give you the right to NOT try again whole-heartedly.