Wisdom Notes-21

How Do You Make A Heart Believe That It Deserves Love, Honor, Respect & It Deserves The Best?

How Do You Make A Heart Protect Its Own Preciousness & Still Love?

How Do Contain A Heart That Starves To Be Love?

I don’t have all the answers, but I do know that a weary and damaged heart usually finds the answers a little too late. You have One Heart, One Soul & One Spirit and they were made to protect eachother. Know your worth.


Walls are built to separate one thing from another, one person from another; to separate walls inside the heart unconsciously; to separate walls inside the mind are created by life (fear, regret, remorse, hurt); to separate walls are a temporary and quick fix to deal with certain moments in life. Walls are large stumbling blocks to detour you, re-direct you, hinder you and make it harder for you to go forward. Wall protect from the bad but they also keep the good out. Walls could make you miss your blessings.

From My Heart: It’s hard to break through invisible walls inside a person. To break through and break down walls take prayer, patience, understanding, sincere love, compassion, mercy, kindness, endurance and faith. Because you don’t always see the walls coming down or falling inside, you just have to believe in that person more than they believe in themselves. Trust that your prayers are being answer and the seed is growing inside that person. Some walls are thick but love is thicker and stronger than any wall.


Poetry – Walls

Walls made of bricks, wood, stone, iron, water, trees, rocks or paper, held together by tears of pain and hurt, are all strong walls inside the heart, mind or soul. Worldly Love made these walls solid and strong and the memory of hurt maintain these walls.

God’s Love with faith, can restore, repair, mend, remove and tear down these walls. It starts with making a decision, a choice to love again.

You were made to love and be loved. Hurt is just a part of life. You live and you learn the wisdom of love.

If you learned not to love, you didn’t learn anything at all and satan wins.

Sincere Love

Having a sincere heart in this day and time, is a dangerous thing. It’s unbelievable to some and a punching bag to others. Having the mind of Christ, putting other’s first, being the last; giving and never receiving back; believing someone is truly innocent until proven guilty and forgiving as God has forgiven us. Having a sincere heart for Christ and holding the words of God close to your heart and trying to live by those words… being humble, meek and merciful: being a sheep in a field of wolves.

From My Heart: God had to teach me how to love, when to love, how much love to give, what kind of love they will understand and accept or if to love and just walk away. He’s teaching me that I am responsible for my own heart as well as my own body, to protect my heart, mind, body, spirit, soul and trust Him for the protection of those that I love. I have a right to protect myself. Forgive and walk away because you know your self-worth and you deserve better. People will chew you up and spit you out and hurt you just because they can, some are hell-bent on breaking you into, just to see how much you love them or just to see you cry in humiliation. Bricks and Cotton-balls don’t mix but it’s by nature that the strong seek out the weak.


PETs: Animals may not have a soul but they have a heart, emotions and feelings. When you hurt them, they cry. When you leave them, they are lonely. When they see coming, they are happy. When you abuse them, they fear you. When they lose someone they love, they mourn/grieve for days. When you are affectionate toward them, they learn to be affectionate. When you’re sad, some animals can sense this and try to comfort you. When you love them, they protect you; some will even die for you. When you give them away or they get lost, they try to find their way back to you because they remember your love.

Pets should be part of your family. They should service a purpose of compassion, companionship and protection. They were meant to be blessings. Yet, you leave them out in the cold, you suffer them to the heat, no baths, no flea collars, no flea powder, no shots, no fresh water or no water at all and they eat when you remember to feed them. You turn the music loud in the car with the windows up-they have sensitive ears. You subject them to your 2nd hand smoke just as you do your small children. You dress them in clothes to look pretty without making sure it’s uncomfortable for them. Pet clothing was meant to keep your pet warm when it’s cold or dry when it’s raining. You half-care for them and they still protect you and trust you.

Pets are like children, they are your responsibility. Neglect is a form of abuse. We are a selfish and inconsiderate people. Animals are better than most people.


Leaders/Managers/Bosses/Owner: The head of a chain is only as strong as the links that are connected to it. When there is a weak link, you are not a good leader. The people that follow you, represent you or your company/group/business. When you allow people to mistreat others that are under you command, what does this say about the person you are?

From My Heart: What happen to Character, Integrity, Moral, Value and the Christian Way. It’s not all about money and people are not expendable. Good Leaders are hard to fine. A Leader is wise, smart but never too smart to learn. A Leader is compassionate, yet firm, honest and fair, watchful and merciful yet filled with tough love; patient because people learn differently and follow at a different pace. A Leader is a part from men, a woman a part from women. They aren’t afraid to stand alone and hold their own and stand for what they believe. A Leader protects in wisdom, serve in love and thinks before they speak, direct or demand. A True Leader, leads in knowledge, humbleness, strength and prays about all things. But most, find it easier to follow in the footsteps of fools.


Poetry -Leade Me

I let you lead me to the pits of hell I’m burned to the core of my soul You lead me to my death, my body wants to breathe no more I let you lead me to an empty place of no return, into pity and shame and I can’t find my self-worth I let you lead me through a pile of crap and I can’t get the smell off me or out of my memory.

But under your leadership, you lead me to myself: I chose to follow, so, in that, I learned from my mistakes And I choose to accept responsibility for trusting you to lead  In you leading me to my death, you lead me to my own life.

I Wasn’t Born This Way


He looks at me as if I was born this way. People like him made me like this I was born innocent, sweet, giving, loving and trusting. I feel condemned for being damaged at heart and scared to the core of love. It’s not my fault… I didn’t know that heartache would alter my ability to love. I didn’t know that the tears would harden my heart after they have fallen from my face. I didn’t know that my body would develop a routine, habit and need to run from love. I didn’t know that, between every so called Mr. Right, the pain was killing who I am and who I was meant to be. He looks at me as if I was born with this fear that protects my heart and my peace of mind. I can’t see pass the “fear”, “maybe’s”, “what if” and the thought of another heartache

My colors used to be bright as a rainbow, filled with life, hope and faith in love. Now at the thought of love… love feels like death waiting to kill me


I don’t know what a real husband is. I’ve never had a good man in my life. Their heart was always somewhere else: with baby mommas, exs or mothers.

From My Heart: I guess a good husband is sweet, kind, protective, patient, understanding a woman’s heart, being merciful with a woman’s mind, strong yet weak for her, honest, giving, fair, compassionate, sexual yet attentive, listens and hears, love his wife as Christ love the church, forgiving, willing to change for the better for the sake of love, a good father, teacher, leader of his family, prayers for his family. Faithful in his heart, mind, soul, with his eyes, his touch, his intent…Not perfect but perfect for his wife.


Definition: Tears. Sorrow of the soul. I cannot stand outside this Word and describe what it means or how it feels. I have not healed; therefore, my heart has no words to define this matter of the heart. Sorry.

I’m learning: When we do not protect our heart, we set ourselves up to be hurt. If your heart is broken it is your fault. If you choose to love, learn to forgive. If you choose less than what you deserve, learn to tolerate hurt without bitterness. Protecting your heart doesn’t mean to never love or let people in. It means learn your self-worth, expect to be treated with love, honor, respect, kindness, compassion, consideration, caringness, understanding…. Find someone that will love you like God does or pretty-dog-gone-close to it.

If God wanted to kill satan, all He has to do is bless him with a heart to love. Love hurts like hell

I Don’t Want To Be Job’s Wife

I watch you struggle with the decisions of life weighing you down. You’re torn between things that seem to be blessings running over. I want to share with you my wisdom to help guide you. But I don’t want to be Job’s wife whispering satan’s words in your ear. I see the desires of your heart to please God in all that you do.

I hear your prayer to make your ways clear and promising. I want to share my wisdom to make it better and easier for you. But I don’t want to be Job’s wife and you harden your heart toward me.

I hold your heart as you pour out the fears of wrong choices. Listening to the sound of your voice as a child lost in the wilderness. I want to protect you from the wrongful ways that pulls you most. But I don’t want to be Job’s wife, judged as foolish in my worry.

In my silence, I pray and I trust God to direct your path and bless your footsteps. And I pray that somewhere along the way, your footsteps will lead you back to me. And you will believe that I love you and I’ll always be here for you. I am your blessed Wife


EARS Ears are a very sensitive thing. Baby virgin ears and Dogs super hearing should not be subject to loud music in your car. You say that loud music doesn’t affect you but every time someone says something to you, your response is “uh, what cha say?” You have to listen to everything loud in order to enjoy it or hear it means that you have already damaged your hearing for life.

From My Heart: Words are valuable in life. Hearing those words is life. Being able to hear and save a life is an amazing thing. Speaking meaningful words to someone you love and they cannot hear is a very frustrating thing. Being able to hear to protect your family is important. You, not being able to hear, may hinder what people may need to say to you. To hear is a gift.