Wisdom Notes-28

IT’S SO HARD TO COMMUNICATE; ONE WORD CAN HAVE SO-MANY-DIFFERENT MEANINGS.

I love you means I like you alot. I miss you means I miss something you do. I need you means I need sex. Your the one means your the one right now. I trust you means I trust as far as I can see. Don’t go means stay until I don’t need you. You hurt my feelings means nothing.

Smile

There is something special about a smiling face. I believe that a smile is the beginning of laughter and laughter is a lifeline connected to the soul. Laughter causes the soul to rejoice. When you smile at someone and they smile back, it makes their world ok…. if only for a moment. When someone starts laughing, it can become contagious. A smile is a natural connection between every soul. A smile can change a thought, change an attitude, re-direct an action, alter a mood and plant a seed of joy. The smile of child is brighter than a thousand suns.

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Poetry
You’re Smile Your smile runs through me like a warm strike of lighting, waking up every part of me. There is nothing and no one like your smile. When you smile, you humble my knees and my heart. Your smile overwhelms my spirit in love. When you smile, you make my soul smile. Your smile gets me through it all in a blink of an eye. When you smile, instantly, life gets better. You smile embrace my everything. When you smile, the joy of the Lord is truly my strength and I can go on.

Your smile…. I thank God for your smile

Mine

Mine- Something that belongs to you, that supposed to be yours; something that no one can take from you.

From My Heart: Nothing is yours. Nothing is mine. We were all born with nothing and we will all die taking nothing with us. Everything belongs to God. Nobody belongs to anybody. Just because you control something doesn’t mean it’s yours. Except for Uncle Sam & the US Govt. – they own whatever they want and take what they want. Your Children: you can’t stop them from being born if it was meant for them to be born and you can’t stop them from dying when it’s time for them to die. They are not yours. No one can give life or take life without God’s decision. Everything that is done, God allowed you to do- He knows your heart that circumstance will determine your decision and emotions will sometimes take over. Nothing is new under the heaven-it has all been done before.

Nothing is new under the heaven-it has all been done before.

Time to say goodbye

Poetry
Time To Say Goodbye: When it’s all over between us and there’s no sun hiding behind the clouds. When our ears stop listening and our eyes forget to see what we once work so hard to keep. When there are no feelings left to care, no mercy left to give and no strength to keep trying. When all that is left is the memory of pain and pointed fingers Lord, please give us the courage to say goodbye in peace. When everything has been given and there is nothing else to take. When all the conversations are expressed in arguments, disrespect and frustration. When accomplishments become tarnished, our success becomes our failures. When everything done, can’t be forgiven and everything said cannot be taken back, I pray Lord, that You will have mercy and heal both our hearts and allow time to pass quickly Or have mercy to help us walk away with a sweet goodbye.

Closure

Closure: Guys, you super-suck at closure! It is so wrong to leave without saying good-bye. It’s wrong to walk away without hearing what she has to say and I understand that you don’t want to feel guilty. It’s nothing easy about good-byes and you guys are the worst at it. Just saying, you suck. It’s ok to say that there is nothing she can say to make you stay. Just say- it’s not what you want anymore. Just say, it’s over and it’s time to move on. Say, not text it. At least call her and say it. Give it at least a month before you are seen with another woman. Be merciful. Don’t be cold and heartless. Expect the worst, let her vent and cry, deal with it and go on.

Ladies you really got to learn to let go when it’s time to let go. Closure is good for us but it’s not easy for men at all. They are not with you because that is their choice. Accept it. Get Angry. Cry. Hurt. Pray and move on. Stop calling. Stop texting and Stop hunting him down. Stop waiting for him to come back. Stop harassing him every time you see him out somewhere. Stop trying to be everywhere that he might be. Stop going to his mother’s house. Stop begging. Stop trying to make him listen to your heart. Stop writing him letters. Try writing the letters to have somewhere to put how you feel. It helps the healing process. Healing takes time. If he leaves, that means it was only for a season, a moment. Let go and let God. Wait to be wanted and appreciated by someone else. You can’t make his heart love you if he doesn’t. You can’t make him stay if he wants to leave. You can’t make him ready if he ain’t. You can’t change the heart of a person with your words, he has to want to stay and love you.

Change

Change is taking action to be different than before. Change is not forced. It is a willingness inside that helps you to be different. It happens in a heart and mind of a person that has a desire to change.

From My Heart: Love does not change a heart but love does help the heart to change. Change for the sake of love or motivates-doesn’t last very long. Change to be married-your true selves will show its colors in time to come. Change to be free from bondage or prison- freedom will show up and cause you to be locked down again. I don’t know if any person can truly change without God. Changing without God, your old-self and old-ways will sit on your shoulders and wait for you to fail to crawl back in and take over again.

If you are praying for a change in someone else, remember that, God starts the change from within. That means that you may not see the change that God is doing but have faith and trust that He’s doing His part. In time, you’ll start to see small changes (first) on the outside from the big changes that God is doing on the inside. So don’t get in the way of what God is doing. Don’t continue to talk negative words to that person; don’t keep putting them down; don’t treat them like they are too far gone in sin for God to change them; don’t remind them how they use to be; don’t push them or pressure them. Pray for them. Be Silent.

Trust God. Believe in them and believe for them. Trust God for them. Pray before you speak to them. Believe that all things are truly possible with God. Nothing is too hard for God. Be patient while God is doing what God does. Let God be God.

For some people, it would be easier to crawl back into their mother’s womb than to change from the heart.

Broken Spirited

Broken Spirited Defined: When the doors are closed in your face too many times; When hard times last a little too long; When problems come a little too often; When nothing good ever last; When no one is ever there for you when you need them the most; When your worst outweigh your bad and there is no comfort in your nights or days…A broken spirit …. your faith become thin as the skin of a dry leaf; your spirit grows weary and your prayers fade in the ceiling; tears harden your heart; your strength feels like it left your body to defend for itself; you’re emotions becomes numb; your mind is at stand still like stagnate water and your soul broken into a million pieces.
Your what-ever-attitude says that you have given up. You go to church and can’t lift your hands to give God praise. You want to speak life to your situation but your lips won’t move. You’ve given up trying to make it work because all your hopes are gone. You listen to people trying to say things to encourage you but you can’t hear them. Your eyes are open but you can’t see. Going through the motions of everyday life and nobody sees your pain. Tears behind the smile and hurt behind the laughter. Your prayers are short and to the point because you don’t feel that God hears you. All your memories of hurt, pain and all the bad things drown your spirit. And you find yourself mad at God to only find that satan had a plan for you before you were born and your people in your past and your own choices played a part in his plan.