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Someone Asked Me, How Do I Raise Good Children? How Do Teach Them Respect & To Obey? How Do You Raise Them The Right Way?

No Parent is Perfect. Answer: 1. The Bible says to raise a child in the way that they should go; Raise them in the word and to fear God, to know God.  2. I don’t care how hard you try to be a good Parent to your child…. you wouldn’t see what you did wrong until their Grown. Then, it’s too late to remold them.

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It’s Hard To See Things A Better Way. It’s Hard To Always Do Things The Right Way. It’s Hard To Believe When Your Body Is In Pain. It’s Hard To Trust Something You Can’t See. It’s Hard To Change With A Broken Spirit. It’s Hard To Walk Through Fear. It’s Hard To Love When Your Heart Has Been Torn Apart…

Be patient with yourself. Be patient with God. Nothing last forever but God’s love for you. There is Wisdom in everything that happens. A hard heart can’t learn wisdom.


Being a writer, words mean the world to me. Every word has its own meaning, its own time and place. Words determine the outcome of a thing, the depth of thing. I’ve search my whole life to find someone that could hear me. You, you listen to my heart, my soul, my spirit. When my words won’t come out right, you speak what I meant to say. I speak words on the surface of things, you speak the depth of my hidden fears. When you speak, it’s like you’ve been in my secret places and heard my silence cries. You leave me frozen in my steps when you speak my truth that I keep from you. Before you, I always felt like I was in the world by myself. When you speak, you are in my world, crossing into my comfort zone.

My land was divided by your ocean, you open me up and filled every part of me. Before you, Words was all I had and I kept them hidden inside. Before you, a pen, a piece of paper and prayers was all I had to express myself. Writing was my safe place, no one could use my words against me. Writing was somewhere to put how I felt and now I have you, my words, you hear and we are one I love you, my world, my every thing. Maybe you are just my imagination because you left without a single word.


Words today hold no meaning; no one has the same meaning for the same words. People use words to meet a need, to feed their greed, to create a comfort zone and to get where they want to be.

Words are the most powerful thing in the universe. Words are a form of communication used in a negative or positive way; Words alter life for a life time; Words destroy, re-build, restore, remold, build-up, tear-down, mend or damage a soul; A spoken Word gives life; A spoken Word can make a heart feel like dying; Words encourage and discourage; Words can change a life for better or worst; Words can be food for the soul or kill the spirit; Words can portray as a knife and cut your world into; Words can be a beautiful thing if they are spoken in a beautiful way; Words can be evil and plant seeds of FEAR; Words can bless and words can curse; Words can direct your path or cause you to stray; Words bring peace or words can start a war; Words can open doors and those same words can imprison; Words can keep you bound and words can set your free. Words can make a difference between life and death.

From My Heart Reality: Words have lost their meaning. People don’t care anymore about what they say or how their words affect others. This is my purpose for writing this book. Words and actions are all we have in order to communicate. Use them wisely.


Walls are built to separate one thing from another, one person from another; to separate walls inside the heart unconsciously; to separate walls inside the mind are created by life (fear, regret, remorse, hurt); to separate walls are a temporary and quick fix to deal with certain moments in life. Walls are large stumbling blocks to detour you, re-direct you, hinder you and make it harder for you to go forward. Wall protect from the bad but they also keep the good out. Walls could make you miss your blessings.

From My Heart: It’s hard to break through invisible walls inside a person. To break through and break down walls take prayer, patience, understanding, sincere love, compassion, mercy, kindness, endurance and faith. Because you don’t always see the walls coming down or falling inside, you just have to believe in that person more than they believe in themselves. Trust that your prayers are being answer and the seed is growing inside that person. Some walls are thick but love is thicker and stronger than any wall.


Poetry – Walls

Walls made of bricks, wood, stone, iron, water, trees, rocks or paper, held together by tears of pain and hurt, are all strong walls inside the heart, mind or soul. Worldly Love made these walls solid and strong and the memory of hurt maintain these walls.

God’s Love with faith, can restore, repair, mend, remove and tear down these walls. It starts with making a decision, a choice to love again.

You were made to love and be loved. Hurt is just a part of life. You live and you learn the wisdom of love.

If you learned not to love, you didn’t learn anything at all and satan wins.

Taking Advantage

Taking advantage of the weak in helpless moments, naive and innocent people is a very cruel thing.

From My Heart: The choice not to take advantage of someone; not to take advantage of a situation or issue; not taking advantage of the lesser being… shows that you have a heart, a soul, character, integrity, morals and values of a higher standard.

Advice: When someone takes advantage of a person seems to strengthen their weaknesses; much like pride covers FEAR. Stop being weak food for the strong. Know your self-worth. Hold your ground. Know that you have a right to say “No”. Know that you deserve better. Walk away. Do what’s best for you. Know that, if someone loves you, they won’t take advantage of you or your weaknesses. Don’t trust a fool to do right by you.


Suicide is an easy way out of all your worries, mistakes, fears, regrets and problems; it’s a one-shot solution; selfishness not thinking of others and how it will affect their lives.

Suicide is not a thought… it’s a feeling, it’s a strong emotion. It’s no different than trying to deal with an addiction or habit. It’s fighting the mind over a matter. It’s a need that is greater than what anyone can give at a certain moment. The eyes of suicide, does not see a way out or a way through or a way over, nor a way around the problem.

From my heart: I have written a book: Suicide is my closest friend. I pray that it helps you to understand the mind and heart of suicidal people.

I Chose Pride Over Love


Instead of standing before you and sharing my fears of being hurt; my pride stands strong and I walk away Instead of showing you that I need you; my pride portrays me as a people that don’t need anybody for nothing.

Instead of shedding a tear in your presence; I avoid eye to eye contact or avoid time with you. Instead of calling you and asking you to come be with me because I’m lonely; pride harden my heart and keep me company. Instead of meeting you half way; I make you come most of the way so I can feel in control and loved.

Instead of swallowing my pride to ask; I wait for hell to freeze over or wait for you to ask you ask … whichever comes first Instead of letting you in and making you feel at home; I make it known this is mine and your time is limited Instead of opening up my fragile heart and let you love me; I treat you like you’re no different than they Instead of pouring out my heart to give your heart a safe place to belong; I keep silent and this makes your mind unsure and confused All you want to do is love me, but chose pride instead of love.


Pride: A shield of insecurities; A thick wall to shield fears; A mask to pretend that weakness doesn’t or a blanket to hide true self.

From My Heart: There is no pride in love and no love in pride. Pride is like a shell that protects something soft. Pride runs deep; choking the heart when it needs to speak. Pride hardens the heart and causes love to feel distant. Pride and anger cloud judgment. Pride doesn’t allow you to be humanly sensitive to an important emotion. Pride cripples the heart. Pride ties the hands of wisdom. Pride limits wisdom, emotions and choices. Pride has no freedom.

Taking pride in what you do is a healthy pride Taking pride in things, position, titles and riches isn’t a healthy pride Only God can strip you of your unhealthy pride. Pride really does go before destruction and lost.