Wisdom Notes-17

It’s Hard To See Things A Better Way. It’s Hard To Always Do Things The Right Way. It’s Hard To Believe When Your Body Is In Pain. It’s Hard To Trust Something You Can’t See. It’s Hard To Change With A Broken Spirit. It’s Hard To Walk Through Fear. It’s Hard To Love When Your Heart Has Been Torn Apart…

Be patient with yourself. Be patient with God. Nothing last forever but God’s love for you. There is Wisdom in everything that happens. A hard heart can’t learn wisdom.

Smile

There is something special about a smiling face. I believe that a smile is the beginning of laughter and laughter is a lifeline connected to the soul. Laughter causes the soul to rejoice. When you smile at someone and they smile back, it makes their world ok…. if only for a moment. When someone starts laughing, it can become contagious. A smile is a natural connection between every soul. A smile can change a thought, change an attitude, re-direct an action, alter a mood and plant a seed of joy. The smile of child is brighter than a thousand suns.

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Poetry
You’re Smile Your smile runs through me like a warm strike of lighting, waking up every part of me. There is nothing and no one like your smile. When you smile, you humble my knees and my heart. Your smile overwhelms my spirit in love. When you smile, you make my soul smile. Your smile gets me through it all in a blink of an eye. When you smile, instantly, life gets better. You smile embrace my everything. When you smile, the joy of the Lord is truly my strength and I can go on.

Your smile…. I thank God for your smile

Sincere Love

Having a sincere heart in this day and time, is a dangerous thing. It’s unbelievable to some and a punching bag to others. Having the mind of Christ, putting other’s first, being the last; giving and never receiving back; believing someone is truly innocent until proven guilty and forgiving as God has forgiven us. Having a sincere heart for Christ and holding the words of God close to your heart and trying to live by those words… being humble, meek and merciful: being a sheep in a field of wolves.

From My Heart: God had to teach me how to love, when to love, how much love to give, what kind of love they will understand and accept or if to love and just walk away. He’s teaching me that I am responsible for my own heart as well as my own body, to protect my heart, mind, body, spirit, soul and trust Him for the protection of those that I love. I have a right to protect myself. Forgive and walk away because you know your self-worth and you deserve better. People will chew you up and spit you out and hurt you just because they can, some are hell-bent on breaking you into, just to see how much you love them or just to see you cry in humiliation. Bricks and Cotton-balls don’t mix but it’s by nature that the strong seek out the weak.

Complainers

Complainers seem to be very unhappy people inside. There’s a lot that they don’t like about themselves. Things will always be wrong or only half right and could be done better their way. They see life differently than others. I guess. If they spend all their time complaining about you, it takes the focus off of themselves. There will never be anything that you can do to please a complainer. Sometimes the complaining is about a whole different problem.

Complainers have somewhat of a control issue. Everything they say is more important than what you have to say to them; Very judgmental and quick to point a finger.

Common Sense Solution: Invest in Ear Plugs; do everything they say; get Counseling Or Leave.

Comunication

Communication: I don’t think that people realize that words are all they have with each other. I’ve found that people arguer to keep from talking, for, if they talk, someone has to tell the truth, admit a lie or face their wrong-head-on. Communication is listening without thinking about what you want to say; not listening for words to use against the person who’s talking; listen and try to hear what’s really being said. Communication is talking to someone, not talking at someone. In listening, some words may hurt but give that person a chance to say something to make your heart feel better.

From My Heart: It takes love and caringness to address important situations with patience and understanding; to be able to able to discuss issues that matters most to you; to not be quick to augur but talk calmly; to not be assume you know what the other person has to say and rudely cut them off. It takes a sincere man or woman to sit down and talk about matters of the heart. Communication starts with being honest with yourself and your mate. Secrets and lies damage the communication of love.

Some people don’t want to listen- when you listen, that means that you are responsible for what you hear. Listening takes sacrifice, control, humbleness and a willingness to change. Listening could take the relationship to a higher-deeper level. Much love comes more responsibilities.

Love and care enough to listen to each other’s thoughts, ideals, opinions and emotions. Learn to communicate in a healthy way. Try to see and hear things from a different perspective. Communication takes compromise, understanding and mercy on both parts. Think first, choose your words carefully and pray that your words are received with understanding.