Understanding why someone hurt you doesn’t give them the right to keep hurting you. Understanding why a job won’t promote you doesn’t give you the right to react or rebel. Understanding a person’s past doesn’t mean you have to accept the negative outcome or abuse. Understanding the ways of a person, doesn’t mean you have to tolerate their behavior.
From My Heart: Understanding means that you acknowledge their reasoning, you know their individual ingredients (past situations). When you come out of any bad situation, you have two choices: 1. To let bad make you un-trusting, bitten, cold, mean, selfish, evil, insensitive, abusive, etc… or 2. Be better than what you been through; use what you have been through to keep yourself and your love ones safe; use what you have been through to help others make it out, make it over and make it through.